I wear no uniforms, no blues or army greens.
But I am in the military in the ranks rarely seen.
I have no rank upon my shoulders, salutes I do not give.
But the military world is the place where I live.
I'm not in the chain of command, orders I do not get.
But my husband is the one who does, this I cannot forget.
I'm not the one who fires the weapon, who puts my life on the line.
But my job is just as tough. I'm the one that's left behind.
My husband is a patriot, a brave and prideful man,
And the call to serve his country, not all can understand.
Behind the lines I see the things needed to keep this country free.
My husband makes the sacrifice, but so do our kids and me.
I love the man I married. soldiering is his life.
But I stand among the silent ranks known as the military wife.
Author Unknown
(Submitted by Hannah Musgraves)
Supporting Our Military Heroes
When the draft was abolished a number of years ago, I wondered what would develop with our military force.
Years later, I find it interesting with even more changes.
Selection has become more difficult in some areas with stricter rules and regulations, individual testing is sometimes harder, and only those that can meet or exceed the requirements are accepted as a general rule.
But now, as I understand it, even those that have not graduated from high school can in most cases still enlist in the military.
Benefits can be outstanding for those accepted, but I personally do not believe the driving force is in just the benefits.
As after a person enlists, sooner or later there will come a time for the decision of reenlistment.
Again, our heroes are faced with a decision that could affect their very life.
They may be quiet and never say a word, they may ask what another thinks, but the bottom line comes from within the person.
It may not be true that every young man and woman enlists for the same reason, but it is true that everyone knowingly does by realizing he or she may well be engaged in an effort to protect the people and government of the United States of America.
To serve under conditions most of us will never know, understand, or even be able to relate; it is important that the brave are supported by the efforts of parents, sweethearts, spouses, and their children in order to continue their careers.
And, it really doesn't matter if our men or women serve two or thirty years, the fact is, they are serving our country and we are the ones that benefit.
Every American can and should support the United States Military in one capacity or another.
Whether by displaying the flag, contributing in special projects, supporting MIA and POW efforts, adopting a soldier; or just being there for the enlisted, every single American needs to devote some sort of interest in behalf of our military personal on an on-going basis.
Family Support
All military branches have organizations available for spouses to join and contribute to the effort of their hero.
Taking the time to devote to projects that would benefit military personal is a time consuming effort, and depends on the time an individual is able to contribute.
Many spouses simply do not have the extra time with children and families to take care of and perhaps their own line of work, or physical conditions.
Not every spouse can accomplish the same as another.
The bottom line of just being there for your hero is the best support of all.
However, many military spouses find additional ways to support the United States Military by joining Military Family Support Groups and Programs.
Either way, without the spouse's support, few married military members would be able to continue to protect our country and achieve their goals.
The willingness of support from spouses, family and friends of military members should never be slighted because it is the support that our Military Heroes receive from these individuals that provides the stability within the system and the ongoing efforts of our heroes.
I am proud of all individuals who stand by our United States Military, by doing so, we hope others will realize what can be done from the home front depending on one's own situation and time.